FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: — December 3, 2024 — Dallas TX — Dean Elliott, the entrepreneur behind one of the industry’s most beloved lubricant brands, Sliquid, has sadly lost his fight with cancer at 59 years old.
Dean is survived by his partner, Cynthia, their two children, Lukas and London, his sister, Doriane, and nephew, Bodhi.
Elliott founded Sliquid in 2002, initially offering just 2 SKUs. Under his 22-years of steadfast leadership, he grew his company into a legacy brand that now boasts a product range consisting of over 100 SKUs, spanning 6 collections.
Born and raised in New York City, Elliott was part of an entertainment family. His father, who he was deeply connected to, was a storied jazz musician; his mother was a beautiful and talented actress and business manager. His early work life started in the 80s, holding court as a bouncer at the fabled Manhattan nightclubs, Studio 54 and The Roxy. Dean inherited his parents’ talents, garnering a love for the entertainment industry, even experiencing his own brush with movie stardom when he was cast in the 80’s cult-classic breakdance film, Beat Street.
Elliott could easily be described as the quintessential New Yorker. He was loud, with an instantaneously recognizable New York voice that often entered the room before he did. That bombastic voice would eventually lead him to a thriving career as a voiceover actor, securing a long-term contract as “the voice” of Atlantic Records. His effortless talent earned him a plethora of voiceover spots with brands like Volvo, WWF, AMC Theaters, and even the narrator role in the MTV cartoon comedy series, Spy Groove.
As reality tv began to dominate the television landscape in the 90s, Dean saw an opportunity to expand his career. Under the visionary guidance of his company, Production Cargo, he found himself navigating location logistics, including security, medic, and transportation for a variety of high-profile shows.
It wasn’t until the early 2000s that he married his beautiful wife, Cynthia, who shared a passion for scuba-diving. Little did he know, this relationship would inspire his greatest accomplishments. Together, Cynthia’s career in consumer products and Dean’s incessive drive for problem-solving conceptualized the need for re- invention.
Enter, the lubricant market … As stated in an XBIZ Premiere profile from 2020, he didn’t like that it was hard to understand the ingredients on the back of lube bottles. Already feeling like it was time to re-invent himself, he said, “you know, let’s come up with a cleaner and greener way of doing these lubricants.” This is where his entrance into our industry takes place, and his legacy brand, Sliquid, begins.
Starting with meager resources, Elliott began his pleasure products career in a combination of two locations, neither very glamorous; a 400 sq ft. one room office space, and his traveling sales office, which was simply the trunk of his car. Every day he would load his trunk with cases of Sliquid and head out on cold sales calls with the goal of not returning home until the very last case of that day’s run had been sold. In no time at all he was taking orders from stores that he was unable to fill on the spot.
His determination to succeed in solving that pesky ingredient problem has been realized over the past two (2) decades that Sliquid has been in operation. With his savvy business mindset and ability to connect with people, he built himself and his family a strong and flourishing business.
Dean was a force of nature wherever he went. His love for people and their stories was endearing. He never met a stranger, only a new friend. Dean was also a champion of women’s rights, animal rights, and human rights. He was a trusted friend and ally to the LGBTQ+ community.
As remembered by his loyal staff, “you couldn’t accompany him through airport security, or even the grocery store, without someone yelling his name in excitement to see him. He knew everyone, from the person checking for lube in his suitcase to the person that helped him find snacks at his favorite Costco.”
Colin Roy, Sliquid Senior VP and the first employee to be hired by the company, said, “Dean Elliott’s presence will be deeply missed—by his family, by me, and by the industry he cared for so passionately. Dean was the kind of person who always remembered your name, your accomplishments, your struggles, and had a story to share for every moment. He had an incredible love for people, a deep compassion for animals, and a vision that shaped a legacy brand built on that very love. I can only hope to honor his vision and guide it forward for another 20 years. Dean, I love you, man.”
Friend to both Dean and Cynthia, Michelle Marcus campaigned for the Sliquid brand before eventually joining the team in 2009, as the Director of Sales and Marketing. “It’s difficult to summarize a family-ship of nearly 24 years in just a few words. Dean always pushed me to be my best and presented me with new challenges. He was always present for the important moments in my life, like a sibling. His presence was magnetic, and his passing has left a huge hole in my heart. I will honor our friendship and his contribution to my professional accomplishments by continuing to help grow and build this company, as he envisioned it. Dean was and will always be loved by ‘the girls’ and me.”
“Dean was so much more to me than just my boss,” said Erik Vasquez, Sliquid VP of Marketing. “He was a father figure to me. He believed in me when I didn’t have the courage to believe in myself. I always thought of him as the ‘Mayor of Anytown, USA’ because no matter where he was, he made friends with the people around him by shining his mega-watt light, that was his personality and heart, directly on them. Though that light has dimmed, I believe the warmth he casted on the ones who got to stand in that light will last a lifetime. I’m going to miss my friend, dearly.”
A MESSAGE FROM CYNTHIA ELLIOTT
As Co-Founder of Sliquid, I am deeply honored to step into this new chapter of leadership and carry on Dean’s vision for innovation in this space. I want to take a moment to thank you all for your unwavering commitment to our company. Looking ahead, we will continue to build on the strengths that have made Sliquid a leader in our industry. Together, we will continue to adapt to the evolving landscape, while staying true to our core values. Our top priority is to foster Dean’s wishes by continuing forward with business as usual, in this somber time, as we honor his dynamic persona adored by us all.
– Cynthia Elliott, Sliquid Co-Founder
TRIBUTES FROM THE INDUSTRY
“Dean was more than just a client; he was a friend. Over the past 20 years, I got to know him well, and he often reminded me that I was the first person he met in the business.That connection turned into a bond I’ll always cherish. Dean had a larger-than-life personality, unmatched passion as an entrepreneur, and a genuine love for everything and everyone around him. His energy and friendship will be greatly missed.”
– Sara Ramirez, XBIZ
“MyrelationshipwithDeanbeganattheveryinceptionofSliquid.Overtheyears,we built that business relationship into a beautiful friendship. Dean was an inspiration in how he handled himself these last couple of years. He fought intensely and was committed to living his life to the fullest while still being there for his friends and family. Dean was indeed one of a kind, and he will be missed dearly.”
-Ken Sahn, Holiday Products
“Deancalledmehisbrother.WehadabondthatwaslikenootherI’veeverexperienced fromanotherpersonandthat’sbecauseDeanwasunlikeanyoneelse.Hewasreliablein every sense of the word. And that means a lot. He was a trusted friend and business partner- but not just to me, to so many. I know that I’m grieving with all who knew him in our industry- and we all feel the devastation together. But I also am so filled with gratitude for all the joy, humor and inspiration he provided all of us. I will miss you, my brother. Forever.”
-Buck Angel, Buck Angel Entertainment
“Dean was, of course, larger than life. He was a New York City guy at heart and never missed the opportunity to hangout when he came to town. Dean was truly family to the SheVibe crew, and we were all fast friends from day one. We shared stories and hardships and had more fun than anyone ever should. Dean embraced my brother and my daughter as family too and I only wish we had more time to spend together. We always referred to each other as brother and today I feel as though I’ve lost one.”
-Thor Mikelic & Sandra Bruce, SheVibe
“Dean was a person that would make an everlasting impression on you when you met him. He was a tough businessperson with a good heart. Always there with a smile and a big hug. He fought to the end, and I will never forget him. Rest in peace, Dean.”
-Wanda Garland, Eldorado Trading Company
“Evenwhilegoingthruhisincrediblyhard-foughtbattle,heseemedmoreinterestedin talking about how proud I must be of my son being in the industry. He made Casey and I always feel special. We can only dream of living life as full as Dean did.”
-Joel Kaminsky, Good Vibes
“Deanwasapioneerinourindustry,butit’sthetypeoffriendhewasthatcomesto mind first rather than just his success in business. Every time I talked to him, he said something that made me feel good about myself. He knew how to build people up and do it in a way that felt authentic. People like that are rare to come by. He truly was one of a kind and I will miss him.”
-Casey Kaminsky, Good Vibrations
“Deanwasatrulygreatperson.Hemayseemlikeatoughpersonontheoutsidebuthe’s soft in the inside. He embraced everyone with open arms. Not only was he an industry colleague, an Aneros partner but more importantly, a friend. We will truly miss his charm, sarcastic jokester, ally for the community and his warm heart.”
-Brent Aldon, ANEROS
“Many may not know this, but Dean was the first person Brian and I met when we entered this industry. He was welcoming, kind, helpful and passionately enthusiastic about his work. Who knew way back when that we would become fast friends who our kids would soon call Uncle Dean. We will miss you dear friend, rest peacefully knowing that the wonderful team of people in your Sliquid family will continue to do right by your legacy and the wonderful products you created to enrich people’s lives in a healthy and animal loving way.”
-Suki & Brian Dunham, OhMiBod
“Dean was not just a business partner; he was also a friend and the brother I never had. He was larger than life and with an over-the-top personality that drew people in. Though he may no longer be with us, the impact he made will resonate in our hearts forever.God speed, brother.”
-David Massa, King Daddy Toys
“Dean was one of the most remarkable people I’ve ever known. A giant personality, he lit up every room he entered, always glowing with positivity, warmth, and humor. He had a genuine interest in what you had to say—your life, your friends, your family, your latest stupid business idea… he always made you feel like you were the most interesting person he had ever met. He was funny (very!), kind and compassionate. We shared so many fun times together, and I will miss him terribly. My heart goes out to Cynthia, Lukas, London, Doriane, and the entire Sliquid family. There will never be another like him. What a man. What a loss.”
-Neal Slateford, Lovehoney Co-Founder
“Dean was a one of a kind guy, always quick with a smile and handshake or a hug when ever you ran into him. He always stood out at trade shows in a sharp looking, and sometimes flashy sport coat, that style he had was so strong that every time I see a flashy tailored sport coat I think of Dean. I think that shows how Dean just had a wonderful charismatic style to his personality that left an impression on those around him. Dean will be dearly missed and I am sad that He and I will not get our redemption ski run at Crested Butte. Life can be fleeting, but live it up and leave a positive mark on those around you like our friend Dean did.”
-Preston Garland, Eldorado Trading Company
“Dean was truly an incredible person. Every time we saw him at a show, he’d fondly remind us that we were his first online account, always with a sense of pride. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel valued and important, no matter the circumstances. As an innovator in the industry, his impact was far-reaching, and his legacy will live on in all of us who were fortunate to know him. We will miss him deeply and remember him always with gratitude and admiration.”
LOS ANGELES — Sliquid Tsunami ultra-thick gel has been nominated for the 2025 XMAs in the award category “Best Sex Lubricant.”
Nominees were selected from nearly 6,000 pre-nomination entries submitted by members of the adult industry via XBIZ.net.
“We are incredibly honored that Sliquid Tsunami has been nominated for Best Sex Lubricant,” says Dean Elliott, Sliquid’s founder, and CEO. “This recognition reflects our unwavering commitment to creating high-quality, body-safe products that promote well-being though intimacy. We extend our heartfelt gratitude to our retail and distribution partners for their continued trust and support.”
A star-studded extravaganza hosting a who’s who of the business, the XMAs are the Adult Industry’s Biggest Night®, spotlighting outstanding achievements across the global arena spanning movie production, digital media, pleasure products and retail.
Set for Sunday, Jan. 19, at the historic Hollywood Palladium, the 2025 XMAs, presented by premier creator community Fansly, will once again serve as the grand finale to a week filled with industry festivities and fanfare, including XBIZ Expo, XBIZ LA and X3 Expo.
XBIZ™ is the world leader in adult industry news and information, providing up-to-the-minute coverage of the business at XBIZ.com and in two monthly publications — XBIZ World for the digital media market and XBIZ Premiere for the pleasure product market. In addition, XBIZ hosts a series of annual events, including the adult industry’s biggest night, the XBIZ Awards. XBIZ is frequently cited in the media for its coverage of the industry and has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNN, Fox News, Forbes, Newsweek, MSNBC, Wired, CNET, ABC, USA Today, and The Los Angeles Times, among others.
Menopause is a significant transition in a woman’s life, marked by the end of menstruation and a decrease in reproductive hormones. It typically occurs between the ages of 45 and 55, with the average age being around 51. Understanding menopause, its symptoms, and how to manage them—including the use of lubricants—is crucial for maintaining quality of life during this phase.
What Happens During Menopause?
Hormonal Changes
Menopause is characterized by a decline in estrogen and progesterone production by the ovaries. This hormonal shift can lead to a variety of physical and emotional changes. Key statistics include:
Perimenopause: This phase can last several years before menopause, with symptoms such as irregular periods, hot flashes, and mood swings.
Menopausal Symptoms: About 75% of women experience hot flashes, and approximately 50% deal with vaginal dryness, which can lead to discomfort during intercourse.
Duration: The average duration of menopausal symptoms is about 7 years, though some women may experience symptoms for much longer.
Common Symptoms
Hot Flashes: Sudden feelings of warmth, often accompanied by sweating and discomfort.
Night Sweats: Similar to hot flashes but occurring at night, disrupting sleep.
Vaginal Dryness: Reduced estrogen can lead to thinner, less elastic vaginal tissue.
Mood Changes: Many women report increased irritability, anxiety, or depression.
Sleep Disturbances: Hot flashes and hormonal changes can lead to insomnia or disrupted sleep patterns.
The Importance of Lubrication
One of the most commonly overlooked aspects of menopause is vaginal health. Many women experience vaginal dryness due to hormonal changes, making sexual activity uncomfortable or even painful. This is where lubrication becomes essential.
Benefits of Using Lubricants
Enhancing Comfort: Lubricants can significantly alleviate the discomfort associated with vaginal dryness during intercourse.
Improving Sexual Experience: Adequate lubrication can enhance sexual pleasure and intimacy, helping to maintain a satisfying sexual relationship.
Reducing Friction: This can help prevent irritation or injury to the vaginal tissue, which is particularly important for postmenopausal women.
Recommended Sliquid Products
Sliquid is known for our body-safe, natural formulations, making it a great choice for women experiencing menopause. Here are a few Sliquid lubricants to consider:
Description: A daily moisturizer, that doubles as an intimate lubricant, this formula includes additional body-beneficial ingredients, such as seaweed extract, vitamin E, and Aloe Vera.
Benefits: Provides a silky texture and helps support vaginal health, making it ideal for postmenopausal women.
Choosing the Right Lubricant
When selecting a lubricant, consider the following:
Sensitivity: If you have sensitive skin, choose a Sliquid formula from ourNaturalsCollection. The Naturals Collection is designed to be simple, safe, and sexy – the ideal range for the ingredient-conscious consumer.
Ingredients: Avoid lubricants with added fragrances or irritants. All Sliquid lubricants are 100% free of DEA, gluten, glycerin, glycol, parabens, PEG, propylene glycol, sorbitol, and sulfates. Plus, they’re 100% vegan-friendly, non-toxic, and hypoallergenic!
Compatibility: Ensure the lubricant is safe to use with condoms, toys, and applicators, if applicable.
Additional Tips for Managing Menopausal Symptoms
In addition to using lubricants, consider these strategies:
Lifestyle Changes: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and staying hydrated can help manage symptoms.
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): For some women, HRT can be effective in managing severe symptoms. Discuss risks and benefits with a healthcare provider.
Non-Hormonal Treatments: Options like vaginal moisturizers and ph-balanced intimate washes, like Sliquid Splash, can provide relief without hormones.
Conclusion
Menopause is a natural stage in a woman’s life, but it can bring significant changes that impact physical and emotional well-being. Understanding the hormonal shifts, recognizing symptoms, and actively managing discomfort—such as through the use of Sliquid lubricants—can help women navigate this transition more smoothly. Open discussions about menopause and sexual health are vital for empowering women to seek the resources and support they need for a fulfilling life during and after this important phase.
If you’re experiencing menopausal symptoms, consider consulting a healthcare professional to discuss personalized options that can help you maintain your quality of life.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: — October 21, 2024 — Dallas TX — Sliquid, the leading name in high-quality personal lubricants, is proud to announce the launch of its latest innovation, Sliquid Tsunami. This water-based lubricant is meticulously designed to provide an unparalleled experience that is safe, effective, and body-friendly. Sliquid Tsunami redefines personal intimate care with its ultra-thick gel formula, ensuring long-lasting comfort and pleasure.
Sliquid Tsunami is uniquely formulated to enhance the body’s own natural lubrication, creating a smooth and enjoyable experience for all users. Infused with Carrageenan, a plant-based seaweed extract known for its skin-soothing properties, the lubricant offers a thick, velvety texture while being kind to sensitive skin.
Key Features of Sliquid Tsunami:
pH Balanced: Sliquid Tsunami maintains a pH range of 4.1 – 4.4, ensuring it works in harmony with the body’s natural pH to avoid disruption of the vaginal ecosystem.
Free of Harmful Additives: This product is 100% free from DEA, gluten, glycerin, glycol, parabens, PEG, propylene glycol, sorbitol, and sulfates, making it a safe choice for individuals with sensitive skin or specific health concerns.
100% Vegan-Friendly and Hypoallergenic: Sliquid Tsunami is non-toxic, cruelty-free, and vegan-friendly, catering to the conscious consumer who prioritizes ethical products.
Ultra-Thick Gel Formula: Its ultra-thick consistency ensures superior staying power, reducing the need for reapplication and providing an effortlessly smooth glide.
Compatible with Latex, Rubber, Plastic, and Silicone Toys: Whether for personal use or with your favorite toys, Sliquid Tsunami offers unmatched versatility without compromising safety.
Non-Staining, Unflavored, and Unscented: Sliquid Tsunami leaves no mess behind, ensuring an easy cleanup. With no added flavors or scents, it keeps the focus on the experience, not unnecessary additives.
Sliquid Tsunami is formulated with a carefully selected list of ingredients that ensure maximum effectiveness, including Purified Water, Plant Cellulose, Carrageenan, Cyamopsis (Guar Conditioners), Sodium Benzoate, Potassium Sorbate, and Citric Acid. Sliquid’s commitment to providing products that are safe, natural, and effective is evident in every drop of Sliquid Tsunami. With its innovative water-based, ultra-thick formula, this lubricant ensures an effortlessly smooth experience while protecting and nourishing sensitive skin. Whether your customers are looking for a lubricant that complements their body’s natural moisture or something versatile for use with toys, Sliquid Tsunami is the perfect addition to your lubricant category.
Sliquid Tsunami is now available for purchase, globally, through your preferred distribution partners. Ask your distributor rep for information about the new Sliquid Tsunami shelf talker!
For more information on Sliquid Tsunami or to explore the full range of Sliquid products, visit Sliquid.com. Digital marketing assets for Sliquid Tsunami, and the entire Sliquid product range, are available through the Sliquid Insider Portal at https://sliquid.com/sliquid-insider-portal/.
Today, we’re diving deep (pun absolutely intended) into the riveting world of male pleasure, intimacy, and the big “O” – and no, I’m not talking about Oprah, though she’s fantastic in her own right. We’re talking orgasms, baby! And what’s the cherry on top of this pleasure-packed journey? The sensational Sliquid, your new bedside BFF.
The Mystery Unveiled: Male Pleasure Demystified
Pleasure is a universal language. Understanding the nuances of male pleasure isn’t just helpful for the guys; it enriches the intimacy experience for all involved, not matter the person’s gender expression. So, buckle up (or should I say, unbuckle?) as we explore the terrain of male bliss.
1. The Pleasure Anatomy: More Than Meets the Eye
First off, let’s chat anatomy. The male pleasure landscape is like an amusement park – there are more rides than just the main attraction (yes, I’m looking at you, penis). The perineum, nipples, neck, ears, and the often overlooked prostate – aka the ‘P-spot’ – are all zones that can send shivers down his spine. Exploring these areas can unlock new levels of ecstasy, so don’t be afraid to venture beyond the beaten path (pun also intended). For an in-depth exploration, check out this insightful article on the landscape of male orgasms from our friends at Lelo.
2. Communication: The Bedrock of Intimacy
Now, let’s get real about intimacy. It’s not just about the physical meshing of bodies. True intimacy involves open communication, vulnerability, and a hefty dose of trust. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you’re both curious to try. Remember, the sexiest organ is the brain, so use it to deepen your connection both in and out of the bedroom.
3. The Big ‘O’: Not Just a Firework Show
Orgasms are often seen as the grand finale, the fireworks at the end of the performance. But let’s shift that perspective. Yes, orgasms are amazing, but they’re part of a broader spectrum of pleasure. The journey is just as exhilarating as the destination. Plus, male orgasms aren’t a one-size-fits-all event; they can vary in intensity, duration, and even sensation. So, let’s celebrate the diversity of male climaxes!
4. Mix It Up: Variety is the Spice of Life (and Love)
Routine can be the arch-nemesis of passion. Keeping things fresh and exciting is key to a fulfilling intimate life. Experiment with different positions, settings, and scenarios. Ever had a candlelit dinner in the nude? Or a sensual massage session that explores every nook and cranny? The possibilities are endless – and endlessly fun.
5. The Sliquid Magic: Your Must-Have Pleasure Enhancer
Enter Sliquid, the hero of this story. We aren’t just any intimate lubricant brand; we’re the ultimate wingman in your journey of pleasure exploration. Why Sliquid, you ask? Well, our vast selection of lubricant types make us the Swiss Army knife of lubes – versatile, reliable, and oh-so-slick.
Our premium formulas reduce friction, ensuring that every touch, stroke, and caress is amplified to its maximum pleasure potential. They’re the perfect partner for solo sessions, partner play, and everything in between. Plus, with our skin-loving, natural and organic ingredients, you’re not just having fun; you’re pampering your most prized possessions.
6. The Solo Expedition: Self-Love is Real Love
Let’s not forget about solo play – an essential chapter in the book of male pleasure. Self-exploration isn’t just enjoyable; it’s a way to deepen your understanding of your own desires and responses. Plus, it’s a fantastic opportunity to bring Sliquid Silver, our premium silicone lubricant, into the mix. Discover how different pressures, speeds, and techniques can elevate your solo time from routine to remarkable.
7. Education, Exploration, and Enjoyment: The Three Es of Male Pleasure
Finally, remember the three Es: education, exploration, and enjoyment. Learn about your body, explore new territories of pleasure, and revel in the sheer joy of it all. Whether you’re a novice or a seasoned pleasure seeker, there’s always something new to discover and enjoy. The journey of pleasure and intimacy is just as vital and rewarding. Using prosthetic penis for FTMwith Sliquid lubricants can significantly enhance the experience, offering a sense of completeness and boosting confidence. These prosthetics are designed to cater to various needs and preferences, making the exploration of pleasure more inclusive and affirming.
So, there you have it, folks – a whirlwind tour of male pleasure, intimacy, and orgasm, with Sliquid as your trusty companion. Whether you’re exploring the lush landscapes of intimacy solo, or with a partner, remember that pleasure is a vast, varied, and vibrant realm. Dive in, explore, enjoy, and let Sliquid lubricate the path to sensational experiences.
Written by Alessandra Isabella on Friday, April 11, 2024.
When it comes to ~natural~ products, you may be a lil skeptical . I mean, do natural deodorants really keep your pits dry? Can natural retinol serums really iron out those forehead wrinkles? No matter how I may feel about other natural alternatives, there is one ~au naturale~ product I can stand behind, and that’s natural lube. Made without perfumes, parabens, petrochemicals, or any other non-plant-based ingredients, natural lubricants are good for both you and the planet, and they can work just as well as those with artificial enhancements (think: synthetic flavoring, sketchy grades of glycerin, silicones, etc.).
Hey, gorgeous humans! Today, we’re diving headfirst into the deep end of the love pool – yes, I’m talking about intimacy with multiple partners. Before you clutch your pearls or raise an eyebrow, remember: Love is vast, varied, and as unique as your favorite Sliquid formula. And as your go-to wellness guru, I promise to keep things as informative as they are entertaining. So, buckle up for a ride through the ins and outs (pun totally intended) of polyamorous paradise, with a little help from our friends at Sliquid.
The Heart (and Other Parts) of the Matter
Navigating the waters of multiple partnerships isn’t just about juggling schedules or remembering names (though, a handy notebook wouldn’t hurt). It’s about communication, consent, and, most importantly, care – for yourself and for your partners. But let’s not forget the fun part, because, in the end, this is about pleasure, connection, and those toe-curling moments that make you go, “Ohhhh, yes!”
Communication: The Ultimate Foreplay
Before we get to the steamy stuff, let’s talk about the sexiest thing of all: communication. I know, I know, you were hoping I’d start with something more… titillating. But trust me, when it comes to intimacy with multiple partners, a good chat is the appetizer that makes the main course mind-blowing.
Openness: Be clear about your desires, boundaries, and expectations. This isn’t the time for coy hints or reading between the lines. Lay it all out there, like a buffet of your deepest desires.
Honesty: The truth might not always be sexy, but it’s essential. Keeping things transparent avoids confusion and hurt feelings down the line.
Listening: Yes, your partners have voices too! Hear them out, understand their needs, and respect their boundaries. It’s a two-way street, or sometimes a roundabout, depending on how many hearts are in the mix.
Consent: The Golden Rule
Consent isn’t just sexy; it’s mandatory. Every touch, every kiss, every anything should be enthusiastically agreed upon by all parties involved. And remember, consent can be withdrawn at any time, so stay tuned in and responsive to your partners’ cues.
Self-Care: Your Intimacy Toolbox
Now, for the part you’ve been waiting for: what to have on hand to ensure every encounter is as safe and pleasurable as possible. This is where Sliquid slides in (see what I did there?) with their range of intimate care products designed for the modern lover.
Lubricants: A must-have in any pleasure-seeker’s arsenal. Sliquid offers a range of options, from water-based to silicone, ensuring there’s something for every preference and toy. Remember, the right lube can turn a good time into a great time.
Barrier Methods: Condoms, dental dams, you name it. When juggling multiple partners, safety is paramount. Not only do they protect against STIs, but they also keep things clean and tidy, because who has time for laundry?
Aftercare Products: Intimacy isn’t just about the heat of the moment; it’s also about the tender afterglow. Sliquid’s nourishing, pH-balanced bubble bath, Soak, can be a godsend for feeling fresh and cared for. For sexy, hydrated skin, try Sliquid Soul, our topical organic coconut moisturizer.
Communication Aids: Not a physical product, but having a way to facilitate open discussions about desires, boundaries, and health status is crucial. Whether it’s a shared via a text chain, or a good old-fashioned sit down, make sure you have a system in place.
The Emotional Toolkit
Beyond the physical, there’s the emotional aspect of multiple intimacies. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies; sometimes, it’s about managing jealousy, ensuring everyone feels valued, and keeping the lines of communication wide open.
Check-ins: Regularly touch base with all your partners. This isn’t just about physical health but emotional well-being too.
Time Management: Love may know no bounds, but your calendar does. Ensure you’re giving enough attention to each connection to keep it thriving.
Self-reflection: Take time to understand your own emotions and needs. This journey is as much about self-discovery as it is about multiple partners.
Navigating the Highs and Lows
Like any adventurous journey, the path of multiple intimacies comes with its ups and downs. The highs? They’re stratospheric, filled with unparalleled connections, diverse experiences, and a deep understanding of your own desires and boundaries. The lows? Well, they’re part of the package, but with the right mindset and toolkit (courtesy of your wit, wisdom, and a little help from Sliquid), you’ll navigate them with confidence.
Written by Alessandra Isabella on Friday, February 23, 2024.
In a pelvic exam, your health care provider inserts two gloved fingers inside your vagina. Pressing down on your abdomen at the same time, your provider can examine your uterus, ovaries and other organs.
To treat genitourinary syndrome of menopause, your doctor may first recommend over-the-counter treatment options.
You’ve explored a bajillion guides to sex toys and shopped the best online boutiques (so much more discreet than heading into your neighborhood adult boutique). You’ve even brushed up on all the definitions of the latest pleasure gizmos. But while you may have an opinion on the best rabbit vibrator or c-ring, have you taken the time to explore the side salad in this veritable sexual feast? Consider, if you will, the humble bottle of lube. Recent years have seen new formulations flood the market, full of active ingredients, unique textures and other surprises. We spoke with OB/GYN Maria Sophocles for some help sorting through the plethora of options. Here’s our look at the best lube for women.
Whether you’re enjoying a sex toy, or a partner (or both), having a good lube on hand is essential. We’re breaking down the best water-based lube options for you, from the best picks for sensitive skin to aesthetically pleasing ones that look great on your bedside table.
But first, why do you need lube? For some people, it helps manage vaginal dryness. For others, it just makes for a smoother, more pleasurable experience during sex or masturbation. It’s also essential for any type of anal play since the body doesn’t produce any natural lubrication from the anus.
