Unlock Amazing Anal Sex: Your Guide to Prep, Pleasure, Lube & Aftercare

You’ve prepped, you’re feeling good – now for the fun part!

• Relax, Relax, Relax (Mind & Body Prep Are Key):

  • This is maybe THE most important tip. The anal sphincters are muscles; they need to be relaxed, not clenched tight, to allow comfortable entry. Take deep breaths, focus on pleasurable sensations elsewhere, and communicate with your partner(s). If you’re receiving, you are in control of the pace.

• Start Slow & Explore (Self-Discovery First?):

  • Pro Tip: If you’re new to anal sensations, consider exploring solo first! Gentle external massage around the anus, followed by experimenting with a well-lubed finger, can help you understand what feels good. (Remember trimmed nails!).

• LUBE IS NOT OPTIONAL! (And Saliva Doesn’t Count):

  • Crucial Tip: We cannot stress this enough – generous amounts of high-quality lubricant are essential for safe, comfortable, and pleasurable anal sex. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate like a vagina. Friction is the enemy here; it causes pain and potential injury.
  • Saliva is NOT lube! It dries quickly, creates more friction, offers no protection, and can introduce bacteria, potentially increasing STI risk. Just don’t do it.

• Exploring Further (Toys & Partner Play):

  • Ready for more? Try small, smooth butt plugs (vibrating or non-vibrating) or anal beads designed for beginners to explore sensations like fullness or pressure.
  • Enhancing Pleasure:
    • For Vulva Owners: Anal play can be amazing combined with other stimulation! Focus on clitoral stimulation during anal play – try Sliquid Organics O Gel, our organic clit arousal gel, with fingers or a wand vibrator for mind-blowing blended orgasms. Nipple play or other erogenous zone focus is also fantastic!
    • For Penis Owners: Don’t forget other erogenous zones! Focus on penis stimulation (maybe with a stroker used by or on the receiving partner, depending on the scenario), nipple play, etc., during anal play. A vibrating cock ring on the penetrating partner can also add fun sensations for both.

• Safer Sex & Choosing Your Anal Lube:

  • Using condoms for anal sex is always a smart choice for STI prevention. Whether you use condoms or not, the right lube makes all the difference!
  • Condom-Compatible Choices (Water-Based & Silicone-Based):
    • Sliquid Naturals Sassy: Our go-to anal formula! This thicker water-based gel provides extra cushioning and comfort, specifically designed with anal play in mind. Glycerin-free and paraben-free, of course!
    • Sliquid Naturals Silk: A water/silicone hybrid that offers the best of both worlds – long-lasting glide closer to silicone, but still easy cleanup and condom-safe.
    • Sliquid Spark: Want some extra zing? This silicone-based stimulating lube offers warming/cooling sensations thanks to menthol. Fun for clitoral and anal play for vulva owners, and equally exciting for penis owners!
  • If Not Using Latex Condoms: You can technically use oil-based lubes, but be aware they can feel heavy, stain fabrics, potentially trigger a bowel urge for some, and require more cleanup. Silicone or thicker water-based options are often preferred even without condoms. (Remember: Oil degrades latex!).