Whether your interest in strap-on sex comes from your boo’s suggestion, after watching Below Her Mouth, or at the recommendation of your friendly neighborhood Instagram sex educator, there’s no question: Strap-on sex for beginners can be really freaking pleasurable.

Still, because it’s not a sex act taught in sex-ed curriculums, it rarely makes an appearance in TV and movies, and isn’t discussed in most social circles, you probably have some questions. For example: What supplies do you need for strap-on sex? How do you have good strap-on sex?

To answer all your Qs, here’s a strap-on sex guide, with the help of two sex educators.

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