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Why masturbation is essential

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Why masturbation is essential

We are not sure when masturbation got such a bad rap but we do know it’s a shame. Masturbation is so incredibly good for us – body, mind, and spirit. It’s great for our sex lives, our relationships, our health, even our work! It’s time that we come to see masturbation as a vital component of self-care. Masturbating alone is paramount, however it can also increase intimacy between you and your sexual partner. Here are ten reasons why solo and/or coupled masturbation is essential. It teaches us how our bodies work. Sliquid Spark Everyone should...

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8 Naughty Necessities For Every Nightstand

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8 Naughty Necessities For Every Nightstand

There are so many ways to take sex to the next level, whether it’s a new position, a new location, or finding an entirely new way to play. You can also shake things up by adding a variety of lubes and vibes and other toys to the party. Here are a few items you’ll want to stock up on to not only keep the fires going, but also to set them ablaze like they’ve never been before. Don’t forget, toys and lube are not about “needing” them to make sex “work,” they are about wanting them to make sex the best ride of your life. These eight naughty...

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Five Hand Sex Basics You Might Not Know

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Five Hand Sex Basics You Might Not Know

Sex doesn’t have to include penetration or oral action to be considered “sex.” In fact, a lot of folks find that hand sex (sexual stimulation using only the hands) can be plenty satisfying and fun. Whether you’re hands are exploring a penis, a vulva or a vagina, your hands are tools that actually have more dexterity than a mouth, and can have more finesse than a vibrator or some strokers. If your interest is piqued, read on for a few tips on how best to romance your partner’s sexy spots with five hand sex basics. Know your pleasure anatomy...

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Lubricant Categories – Sliquid Lube Breakdown

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Lubricant Categories – Sliquid Lube Breakdown

Last month we talked about having fun with the clitoris and we left you eagerly awaiting some lube education. Well, now it’s here! Today we’ll look at the various lubricant categories and what they can do for you! There are 4 basic personal lubricant categories: water based, silicone based, hybrid, and oil based plus a couple of bonus categories designed to customize your experience. So what does that mean? What’s the difference? Don’t worry, we’re going to break down what’s what, and give you some body safe options for each category! As with...

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Why the Clit is the Sh*t

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Why the Clit is the Sh*t

Most vulva owners and those people that pleasure them, are aware that the clitoris (also called the glans), the nerve laden kernel of skin at the peak of the vulva, is for many people (but not all) a pleasure center. However, a lot of people aren’t aware that this very sensitive area of the vulva is a lot bigger than they think and that it has a lot in common with the penis. Let’s start at the beginning… In the womb our genitals all start off the same, a little undefined nubbin of erectile tissue. As the fetus grows, biology decides...

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Up Your Sexual Game With Lube

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Up Your Sexual Game With Lube

When we think of fun sexual experimentation a lot of things come to mind – several of them NSFW – but, for a lot of folks, there’s a big one that gets overlooked: LUBE. Sometimes dismissed as something that one only needs after a *certain* age or unnecessary because the body creates lubrication, lube is the sex world’s most underrated rock star. It can do anything from make sex more comfortable by showing uncomfortable friction the door, to making sex safer by preventing micro-tears, to elevating sex acts from “that’s nice” to “OH...

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How To Reignite Sexual Intimacy With Your Partner

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How To Reignite Sexual Intimacy With Your Partner

Looking to reignite sexual intimacy with your partner? Has it been awhile since you’ve felt connected to your partner? Maybe work, family or health issues have been front and foremost in your mind lately? Perhaps, you and your main squeeze are experiencing an empty nest or possibly one or both of you just hasn’t been in the mood to have sex at all? These can be some of the reasons you might feel less connected to your partner and feel you have a lower sex drive than usual. Well, I have good news … you’re not broken and you’re not alone....

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Be Prepared: Your Personal “Sex Kit”

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Be Prepared: Your Personal “Sex Kit”

“Be prepared” may be the Boy Scout’s famous motto, but when it comes to sex, it can come in handy. If it’s possible sex might be on the menu in the near future, being ready for most situations can be just an arm’s reach away. How? With a perfectly pre-stocked nightstand and a convenient, portable sex kit at the ready. What is a “sex kit?” A sex kit is a handy-dandy transportable collection of sexy-time essentials that are needed for sex “on the go.” Perhaps you’re spending the night at your partner’s house for the first time and want to make...

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3 BiG Sex Myths BUSTED!

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3 BiG Sex Myths BUSTED!

If you’re like me and didn’t get a whole lot of sex education while growing up, you’re not alone. Most people rely on their friends, schoolyard whispers, porn and the internet to learn all about sex. While some information may be true, a lot is not. Being able to tell what guidance is fact and what is fiction makes a huge difference when it comes to harm reduction, pleasure and even pregnancy. I’m about to bust a few big myths you might have heard. The more penis in vagina sex you have the looser the vagina gets. It is a myth that the vagina...

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Masturbation: Give Yourself a Hand!

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Masturbation: Give Yourself a Hand!

Someone once said, “don’t knock masturbation, it’s sex with someone I love”, and I couldn’t agree more. Masturbation (or, solo sex) is an activity that most people instinctively discover early in life. Because it’s such a private activity, most people don’t talk about it with their friends, and depending on one’s upbringing, there could be some associated shame around touching oneself for sexual gratification. However, it’s important to note that masturbation is very normal for humans as well as others in the animal kingdom.  Though many...

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