There are so many ways to take sex to the next level, whether it’s a new position, a new location, or finding an entirely new way to play. You can also shake things up by adding a variety of lubes and vibes and other toys to the party. Here are a few items you’ll want to stock up on to not only keep the fires going, but also to set them ablaze like they’ve never been before. Don’t forget, toys and lube are not about “needing” them to make sex “work,” they are about wanting them to make sex the best ride of your life. These eight naughty necessities for every nightstand are the perfect edition to any bedroom.
1. For sweetening things up
The Sliquid Lip Lickers Lube Cube is like a grown-up candy store in a tidy little box. Three handy little packets each of Sliquid Swirl Cherry Vanilla, Apple, Blue Raspberry, and Strawberry Pomegranate means all sorts of delicious fun in the most delightfully slippery way possible.
6. For getting your buzz on
There is nothing wrong with adding a little buzz to the bedroom. It doesn’t mean that anyone is broken or that anyone doesn’t know what they’re doing. All it means is that everyone involved wants to enjoy great sex, and vibrator is a great way to have great sex. One the best out there these days are from Womanizer, including their Duo. It creates the ideal blend of clitoral and G-spot stimulation, which means the blended orgasm of the century is right there at your fingertips.
2. For lighting up – and lubing up – your play
This super cool, super discreet five ounce bottle, aptly called the Lube Light Dispenser, has textured sides for easy grip and a light switch right in the cap. Just unscrew the cap and pour in your fave lube. Use the light as your guide to get just the right amount of lube in just the right place.
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3. For making the O even more O-mazing
O Gel is the lube that makes the big O even, well, bigger. It’s 100% vegan, and 95% organic, with Peppermint Oil and Menthol topping its list of star ingredients. You just might be surprised at its ability to arouse and stimulate the clit. What you won’t be surprised about is how happy that big O is going to make you.
7. For a little inspiration
This is one of my personal favorites when it comes to naughty necessities – erotica. When it comes to words that will light your fire, there is something out there for every taste from the classics like Anais Nin and Anne Rice (Yes! That Anne Rice!) to modern collections from erotica pros like Rachel Kramer Bussel who curates collections for every taste. Reader be warned – don’t start reading unless you have the time and space to get the job done…
4. For lasting longer
Naughty necessity number four is called Ride BodyWorx Rock. They call it the desensitizer. You’ll call it the ticket to lasting all night. And your partner will call it rock star status in a bottle. The secret ingredient is fast acting benzocaine. All you need is a few sprays and you can bet you’ll last longer than you ever imagined possible.
8. For spicing things up
One of the best things about sex is that you don’t necessarily need anything other than your own body to have it. One of the other best things is that there are tons of fun ways to up the ante. Think accessorizing! Fill your nightstand with things like a blindfold, a whip, a candle that melts into massage oil, handcuffs, some soft rope, anything that fuels your fantasies and tickles your partner’s imagination.
5. For keeping things discreet
Ever wish your lube was more accessible but you didn’t have to worry about your mom dropping by and gasping when she sees it out on your nightstand? The Sliquid Silver Studio Collection has got you covered. The beautiful glass bottle won’t make anyone suspect a thing – other than that you have great taste. Inside is pharmaceutical grade silicone personal lubricant, Sliquid’s Premium formulation. Great lube + great looks equals great sex every time!
Think of your nightstand as your own personal toy box, a place for all of your naughty necessities. Fill it with all things pleasure focused. No one but you and the person (or people) with whom you play get to dictate or judge what goes inside. So have fun, live a little, get slippery, and take your sex life to the kind of heights that you never dared imagine possible!